123 Days of Summer

Those who know me on a personal level know that I'm a person that likes to stay motivated. I set goals and pursue them like an animal. As an optimist I believe that everything is achievable by creating lists, staying organized, and keeping a clean work space.

One of the most important things that I have been pursing is my education. I have been going to school non-stop for the last eight years. Yes, you read that statement correctly. These past eight years have been both a blessing and curse.

This summer was the first 123 days that I had all to myself. During this time, I had days of crazy wild fun, and moments of reflection where I asked myself hard questions.  In these 123 days I learnt 10 very valuable lessons that deserve to be shared. =)  

1. Promptness shows respect.

2.  Always, always, always trust your gut instinct. This instinct can save you a lot of grief.

3. Unrequited love is not only foolish, it is also creepy and stalkerish.

4. Knowing how to cook is one of the most invaluable skills you can have.

5. You should know within the first fifteen five minutes of meeting a guy if there is a connection, if not, take it for what it is worth and move on.

6. Eating greasy foods is like cheating on one's boyfriend. You’re usually tipsy, it feels great in the moment, but you regret it instantly.

7. Karma exist. When she comes around be prepared for a round of hurting. 

8. When it comes to relationships don't always let logic and reasoning rule your life. It is acceptable to succumb to your emotions and hormones. Before proceeding to doing what "feels right" foreshadow the consequences, and then you won't have any regrets.

9. You eat the seeds you sow.  If you don’t like something about your situation, change it. Don't wallow in self pity. It’s much easier than you think, and very satisfying.

10. Never take your parents, siblings, and friends for granted. Appreciate the people in your life because they could slip away at any moment.

I'm sorry that I don't have anything revolutionary to say. However, I can tell you that life is short but it is good. When approaching any situation remember: clear eyes, full hearts; can't lose now! :)

Your friend Much love,

Margaret